I ended up demoing the Vitus RI-101 with the DAC/streamer module and fell in love with it. Very good balance of resolution and naturalness without sounding analytical at all. Instruments realism is absolutely spot on. I thought it paired well with MLs. Cost is fairly high but since it has a built-in DAC and streamer it saved quite a bit of money buying separate components/cables making it a bit more palatable. I have heard good things about the NAD M32, it was on my list to demo though never got around to it.
I am in the same boat with the 11As, our new room is too small for them. In smaller rooms the depth of the newer MLs make it hard to sit far enough to hear the full range of the panel.