I guess for me it boils down to this:
Since not one of us has identical systems, setup in the same room, with the same music being played, any comparison on what any us can or can't hear lacks a true reference and is nothing more than an exercise in futility since it's simply a battle of subjective, I hear this, you hear that, opinion.
In the absence of such reference many people use science, or maths, or measurements as a reference point since it's the only way to bring into the fold some element of objectivity which can be referenced by everyone.
For me:
If I can hear it, and measurements suggest I shouldn’t be able to hear it, then I believe that what I hear may be real or imaginary but I side with imaginary and wonder if I should go see my shrink.
If I can hear it, and measurements agree that I should be able to hear it, then I believe that what I hear is real and I grab another drink.
If I can't hear it, and measurements suggest I should be able to hear it, then I change up my system.
If I can't hear it, and measurements suggest I shouldn’t be able to hear it, then I grab another drink.