A reason why I do not like very much the Super Audio (SA) multichannel surround sound is because I do not like to be seated as a Director of the orchestra. I like to be seated in the concert hall, and usually, they way that I have setted my system, when playing a Blu Ray DVD, is that, what I get from my surround speakers are some echoes and clapping only. I do not like to hear any musical instruments coming from my back or at my side. What I do like most is to have the musicians(s) at the stage. And what I get is the best seat available at the concert hall. If the recording of the DVD is as many SA CDs, where listening as multichannel, (I am with the director), I make a copy for use as CD only, and give it to a friend. 2 channel offers me the right sense of the stage, with truly 3D and the musician(s) there, in front of me at the imaginary stage in my room.
Of course when the DVD is recorded well, with tons of ambiance at the surrounds, the sense of being there, its more live like. My surrounds level are very soft, because I have them very close to my golden seat. My room is small, but with the surround, it becomes big!...I get the sense of the size of the room.
As I always say, sound is a matter of liking. Some of us might like garlic, other hate garlic.
My best advice, is enjoy the music where you like it most...no matter how I do like it! Happy listening!