I think we're on similar wavelengths, this is probably one of those conversations that would be easy face to face, but become somewhat misinterpreted in a forum setting. I think we all agree that the experience of listening to music is what it's all about.
Good point Steve and I concur, furthermore the 'talk' on a forum setting is much more exciting when we do it with regards to 'gear changes', whereas music is what really stirs the soul.