Mea Culpa...
Hi all,
Jeff makes some serious allegations, to which I would like to respond.
First: What Jeff says in the first 3 paragraphs of the OP are 100% accurate. Jeff and Jean did welcome Jenny and I into their home, did buy us a nice dinner, and Jeff has been more helpful than I could have ever imagined with my vinyl-centric online magazine business. All of which I am very thankful and greatful for.
It is also true that in an example of "immitation being the sincerest form of flattery" I took a lot of inspiration for my web site's design from Jeff's, and in doing so I inadvertantly crossed the line of fair play. For this, I unreservedly apologise to Jeff.
I was under the (apparently mistaken) impression that the copyright for the banners on Jeff's site was owned by the advertisers, so I thought no harm would be done if I copied them while I developed my site and used them as place holders until I could replace them with my own customers' ads. For this too, I unresevedly apologise to Jeff.
The minute Jeff notified me in a private email of his displeasure about the similarities between his site and mine, I set about rectifing the matter. The offending banner ads were removed immediately, and I have just updated the look and feel of my site. Although there are still some similarities between my site and Jeff's, I hope that the differences are sufficient enough that there is a clear distinction between the two.
That being said, a relatively sparse, "clean" look, and the use of red and white text and logos feature in a few other web sites that I have developed. And the choice of font was coincidental: I just scrolled through the list of fonts Adobe Illustrator comes with, and went with one I liked the look of (I previously used Helvetica).
I admit it: I made a bad judgement call and a big mistake. I'd like to assure Jeff and everyone else that there was never any ill intent on my part, nor do I bear Jeff any ill will. I apologised to Jeff in a private email before I knew of this thread, and I'll do it again here, publically: Jeff, I am truely very sorry for my lapses in judgement, and I hope you accept my sincerest, unreserved apologies. I considered you a friend (or at least, a friendly acquaintance) before this **** storm broke, and I hope that after the dust has settled, we can remain friends.
I hope that this is the end of this, and that neither of us does something we regret later.