Finally an update!
JonFo, thanks as always for the great advice.
I finally got in everything (an amp on loan), all the appropriate cords, etc. and set this up. I have it crossed at just 250 Hz right now, and down low at 80Hz. (which until I get a sub, means the low end is lacking). I measured FR using A computer based program with my External Sound Card (M-Audio Sonica) and a RatShack Meter. I adjusted the EQ in the crossover box to make it flat down to 80Hz. (I also eq'd the panels a little bit...but decided against that after the fact, so removed it...I may go back and do it later, but I'm going to leave it alone for now.)
My impressions (besides the DEEP bass lacking a little bit) is that I do get that extra punch...a little "kick" in the chest that I was looking for, and that really fills out a lot of the music I used to not listen to on my logans, and gives it a lot more substance. At the same time, it doesn't sound sloppy at all to me. I was going to go the closed route, as I figured it would better achieve my goals (after a prelim test) but I just don't know how I could be happier with the results than I am now, and would hate to take the time/money/energy to change it, just to find I like how it is now better.
I will probably do that at some point, but it's WAY back on the priority list now.
You're right about dipoles rolling off in the deep bass, and I'm not going to get nearly the output below drop off point that you'll get with your extremis (jealous of those drivers, btw...always wanted to build something with them) but with 6 drivers, 91spl/w/1m and 60w per driver handling, I am pretty sure I'll get way beyond where I want to be (as long as I don't try to cross lower than 80Hz) especially since I don't like listening at particularly loud levels.
I am planning to build a rythmik audio servo 12 kit to match in the low bass, when I get around to it. (2 of em eventually)
Also VERY jealous of your IB sub. That's eventually the direction I want to go...but I don't think my neighbors above or below would like if I cut a hole in their floor/ceiling and vented my IB into their living room!!
Even once I get a house...there's no promise that I'll have a set up that will allow for IB setup. That's why they call it a dream, though...right?
So, "final" word on them...I'm VERY happy! Will continue to EQ (and need to get real stands for them) but am at the point I can just sit back and relax too! Finally!!