JonFo, quick question: what does the "separate them" part of this advice mean? Is it just increasing the spacing between the speakers? And how much toe in are we talking about? The flashlight adjustment in the manual says within a third of the panel. Maybe at the middle?
Thx.
It means what you deduced, to spread them apart further on the wall and angle them in a bit more so the rear wave bounces off the wall behind at an angle away from the speakers. It's not a lot, so just think of a billiard ball traveling from the back of the panel, hitting the wall and bouncing off. Would the new path clear the speaker?
This then needs to be balanced with how the front wave arrives at the listening position, which is why it's often a sequence of steps to spread the speakers apart, play with the toe-in and get to where the balance works for you.
But absorption is the cleanest way of solving this, and given your room spacing constraints, likely the only one that will solve your challenges.
BTW- all this amp swapping should be something you look at down the road. Using amp selection as a means of tone control is rather ineffective, a good preamp with a decent room corretor will get you ten times better results.