Many culprits in the mix
Jim,
I believe there are many ways to address the brightness issue. As discussed, you could swap your preamp, amp, CD player, or adjust the bass crossover on your speakers. Is the overall sonic presentation bright on all your sources or are you hearing excessive sibilance on vocals and everything else is OK? I'd certainly try the bass adjustment first. Other potential culprits include interconnects, speaker wire, power cords, power line conditioning, static, RFI induced noise, and component vibration. How well isolated are your components from vibration? Are you using any vibration control devices? When was the last time you cleaned your interconnects and RCA terminals on your preamp, amp, and CD player? What's your room like? Live, dead or well balanced. Are your wires laying on carpet? If so, raising them off the floor by 6 to 8" may have a substantial impact on glare reduction. What is the wall in back of your speakers? Live, dead, or something in the middle. Having owned four different models of ML speaker, I can tell you the back wall plays a critical role in the overall sonic signature of a system.
I'm trying to provide constructive input and not trying to drive you crazy. Finding that magic balance between sufficient detail without listening fatigue is difficult but can be done. However, IMHO, trying to treat a brightness issue with swapping out major pieces of hardware, before you've explored other potential causes, is a very risky business at best. In the worst case, you can spend alot of money and still be unhappy. Caveat emptor. Take your time and good luck.
GG