My advice is to not worry about differences in sound quality between amplifiers with good specifications.
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In properly controlled double blinded testing, people aren't able to tell the difference between good quality amps.
If you want to know why you have received a somewhat cold reception, look at the way you entered this forum. You jump into a thread and your first post is "don't worry about the differences in sound quality between good amplifiers because there isn't any." And then you start spouting off about double blind testing and so on. If you were a regular, this would have been tolerated and debated in a (somewhat) respectful manner. But jumping in with that attitude with no introduction whatsoever, you tend to get people's feathers ruffled.
So, now you have given us some background and we see . . . you have never actually performed double blind tests with amplifiers. You have the gall to tell someone that there is no difference between quality amplifiers, not because you have any experience with this, but because you read what some dumba$$ engineer wrote?
You go on to say that you owned a pair of box speakers that were . . . how old? . . . 20 or 30 years? . . . and you compared them to ML speakers and the differences were "just a tad more detail, and the bass was a hair better" and better vocals. This alone strains incredulity for anyone experienced with ML speakers. And you didn't buy those speakers, but later picked up a pair of Vistas without even auditioning them? Yours does not exactly appear to be the voice of a seasoned audiophile.
Do you have any understanding of the widely swinging impedances of electrostatic speakers and the load this places on an amplifier? Do you understand why some amplifiers are capable of dealing with this load better than others? Do you have any idea of the various amp circuit topologies and the effects that each can have on the sound? Do you understand what it means when an amp designer states that they "voiced" their amp a certain way? Do you have any idea how ridiculous it sounds to most members of this forum when you say that all quality amps sound the same?
You're much like religious fanatics, appalled that anyone should question the group dogma.
No, we are a community of enthusiasts dedicated to high-end audio and particularly fond of Martin Logan speakers. We have some expectation that newbies to our forum will introduce themselves, give a little background, and read a little of the forum and learn about Martin Logan speakers before jumping in and giving advice. We are certainly opinionated and strongly debate various topics on a regular basis. We don't require that you follow the "group dogma" but we do expect that you have a clue what you are talking about before you start spouting off.
For the record, I have done double blind testing of high quality amplifiers and preamplifiers, and yes, I was able to tell a difference. For the life of me, I can't imagine why you didn't just buy a Bose lifestyle system. They are cheaper than the Vistas, and they have awesome specs!