I guess it's a good sign that ML is very busy with production, but holy crap 3 months. Thats just not fair to have to wait that long. I feel your pain.
It will be painful for sure! Normally the wait would not be that long (I think 4 weeks is usual for custom woods), but my wife is a dealer. We are going through the very generous dealer rewards program that ML provides. So, I think we get moved to the back burner whenever a "real" order comes up. Which is fine, and more than fair.