I think the 'problem' with the Big Three revolves around an area that most pundits and authors are missing. That is that the american obsession (or love affair) with cars was built on cheap gas and until recently, easy access to credit. For the longest time, it wasn't all that hard to purchase a car (new or used). In fact the most profitable arm of the US auto industry is the finance department. I don't think the dealerships make very much money on the average car sale. Rather it's the interest on the car loan that is important to them.
We now have more cars than adults in this country. When you look at the Big Three total product line, I see 4 or 5 of the same thing: trucks, SUVs, small compact cars, family sedans, etc. They manufacture thousands of cars each month hoping that the average consumer 'needs' a car every 2-3 years. While the US auto industry does have a negative stigma, the fact of the matter is that most cars (be it foreign or domestic) are pretty reliable. You can put well over 100k miles on the engine and if you change the fluids regularly and don't drive like a bat out of hell, you can put many more miles on the car.
To me, this industry is built on selling a car payment one way or another. But when gas becomes expensive, they simply cannot adapt. If anything we need to shift from consuming a vehicle every 2-3 years based on technology that, in my mind, hasn't really improved drastically over the last 20-30 years [You'd think it would be possible to add 3-5% better fuel economy each year, but is it me or do most cars get 15-20 MPG in the city and 25-35 on the highway?] to either A) smaller vehicles that go slower, get better mileage, and are powered by natural gas, fuel cells, solar, etc or B) finally get serious about using more mass transit instead of building more highways and roads further away from the population centers.
This issue is more complicated than CEO pay vs union wages and benefits. While 'legacy' costs are important (these guys shell out enormous amounts of money to pensions, benefits, etc each year and it seems that the US auto industry is burdened by that cost and can't dump more money into R&D), the overhead is only part of the problem.
No one wants to see GM go under. This issue impacts hundreds of thousands of people, and it remains to be seen how this bailout money will be spent. Will it just keep them afloat for another 3 years? Will the money be used toward designing and building a better product? If not, would bankruptcy allow GM to restructure it's debt and pension/benefit obligations? Jim Cramer once said that GM is a healthcare provider with an automotive problem.
In the end, the issue will revolve around how often the average american purchases a car. Personally, I feel that we don't 'need' another vehicle every couple of years. If you can get 8-10 years out of a car, you won't be buying that many over your, driving, lifetime.
*** so what would I like to see...well a solution, or at least steps in the right direction in terms of more efficient power plants, more innovation, smaller vehicles, etc. I do feel that America's long-term economic future is grounded in energy and how we get from point A to point B (be it a vacation, daily commute, and so on). There's huge potential to get this country humming again in terms of developing a new energy infrastructure (more hydrogen pumps or natural gas stations vs regular gasoline stations), more jobs and companies related repairing/developing/building vehicles powered by alternate forms of energy (ideally they'd be renewable forms of energy), etc.
But I don't see any of the above happening any time soon as long as we have a short-sighted approach or mindset when gas is cheap and people are able to buy a car whenever they want that is based on same old, tired, technology.