One important detail we're forgetting here is that NEO indicates he's crossing his sub over pretty high. From the way he's written it, it sounds like he's crossing over around 120hz or higher. This is possibly going to be difficult to blend with a single sub. I can't comment on the quality of the Grotto vs the Depth, but if there is a significant improvement in sound quality, then it might be worth his while to work his system around the single sub, but he will probably have to cross it over lower, not sure if this would suit what he's asking for or not.
NEO, you might want to experiment with location to get a feel for whether this is going to be an issue for you or not. Get a long RCA and try positioning your current sub in dramatically different locations, like far right, then far left, then behind you, and see if you can hear a difference. This will let you know if you have a directional issue. Always better to play with what you have before you buy anything new.
That article really sounds like too much paper, not enough real-world. Kinda like when guys in the cycling community used to go on and on about how a carbon fiber frame couldn't possibly ride smoother than a steel frame, and how they could prove it on paper. But one ride on the bike would prove otherwise. The flaw in this type of technical article is that it's what he hasn't considered that affects the outcome.
He may be touching on the reasons why it "seems" directional, like standing waves. But it doesn't explain why the subwoofer in my car, which is crossed over below 80hz, still definitely sounds like the bass is coming from behind me.
The problem may be in semantics, where we aren't actually talking about what we're hearing, it could be a matter of what we are feeling. Low bass is much more about feel than higher frequencies. And, it's definitely not a directional like a normal speaker is. He also points out that it's not directional, but that multiple subs spaced around the room is ideal??? I'm willing to accept that it may not be "true" directionality, perhaps it's standing waves, room dependent, etc... but in the end it's factors that he isn't considering that are impacting what is heard. After all, we can "prove" on paper that tubes are crappy, yet somehow they sound very musical.
It's possible that having two subs in my setup is canceling a standing wave, but that's real-world. We don't all have ideal rooms, and we have to adapt to the environment we're in. Plus, it may also be a factor of a 80hz crossover isn't actually cutting off everything above 80hz, it's just producing less and less of it.